successful man

while i was chatting with XiangRong yesterday, he asked me a very interesting question that.. well.. kind of made me stop and think. an extract of the conversation:


Xiangrong:
how do u define a successful man????

Xiangrong:
come guess

*W a I y U e* :
the one w a successful woman

*W a I y U e* :
u cant say that i'm wrong

Xiangrong:
a better guess

Xiangrong:
A successful man is someone that can earn more than his wife can spend (which is such an cliche answer)

Xiangrong:
how about a successful women

Xiangrong:
A successful women is someone that can find such a man

*W a I y U e* :
he's filthy rich but fiercely faithful and loves you to bits

*W a I y U e* :
how's that for a successful man

Xiangrong:
okok BU CHUO * for NOT BAD

*W a I y U e* ~ :
so what's your answer

Xiangrong:
hes filthy rich got a lot of mistress but only love his wife

which, in my opinion, is crap.

if you only love your wife, why would you have a lot of mistress?
ladies?! watch out for such men.

Xiangrong:
the Xiangrong's theory

*W a I y U e* :
wad happened to the "fiercely faithful" part

*W a I y U e* :
tt's waiyue-theory

Xiangrong:
Who cares

*W a I y U e* :
I DO

Xiangrong:
how bout fiercely unfaithful

*W a I y U e* :
no way

Xiangrong:
but at least the guy loves his wife most ma

*W a I y U e* :
still
that's cheating

Xiangrong:
give some leeway can??

*W a I y U e* :
he wouldn't have mistresses if he loved his wife

Xiangrong:
dun tell the wife lor

Xiangrong:
cause too boring ma

Xiangrong:
if he dont have mistress

Xiangrong:
he would have divorced the wife lor

Xiangrong:
hahaha

*W a I y U e* ~ life needs a reset button says:
BULLSHIT

Xiangrong:
he needs excitement

and then we see the familiar excuses they all give.

Men~